joyouslygirly
CakeWalk
5390 mi
5390 mi
Hi everyone :-) Urnotalone member since 2014, I've seen it all. I'm here for community and for friendship, so say hello. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, likeminded souls can change the world. Kristine xoxo
FrancisKnox
5386 mi
5386 mi
Fun Loving fulltime Older Transwomen. Call me Fran, Franny. Please have a profile and photo.
HaykayTT001
7156 mi
7156 mi
I am a simple gentlelady, God fearing, I have fear of humanity and i respect the nature, am easy going type, very understanding woman, caring, faithful, family oriented and love kids, Am open minded type,i have good sense of humor, i love to laugh and be happy, i love good music and i love sports. I enjoy my job as it allows me to travel and gives me the time off to enjoy life.
James1961
6112 mi
6112 mi
Native to Milwaukee, WI An admirer and supporter, I enjoy getting to know others and never tire of hear each woman's story. Though I'm married, I enjoy creating new friendships online, but I am realistic as to how quickly they can fall apart. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me if you would like to talk. Despite my time online I never tire of hearing about each woman's journey.
JohnLove
6641 mi
6641 mi
I know it must be difficult for many of you to live in two different worlds. As an admirer, I can just jump back and forth. But a serious relationship with a special girl is what I want after two divorces. Genetic girls hold no interest for me. I am just a regular guy who loves women who embrace their femininity. And I will embrace them!
JustDeb
5555 mi
5555 mi
This site, kinda funny.
I am Ms-Congeniality on fetlife. Stop by and say hi.
We girls join this site because it is safe and made for girls like us to talk with each other for support, camaraderie, advise and/or companionship, but when we log on, we hide our profiles. Why is that?
I admire the transformation process. Nothing is sexier than having a plan to transform and spend the whole day doing it. Take the time do each phase correctly. The feeling of becoming submissive while doing so is intoxicating. It is also powerful knowing that I can turn on a special someone and exert my femme side to get just the reward I want. That is pure power. Painting my face knowing that someone just might be lucky enough to come on it then putting on the crowning glory of a wig to finish the fantasy of Debbie.
KeaKea2
7608 mi
7608 mi
Hi. Long time crossdresser interested in fun chat with others like me. Men too if they are nice. mostly closet, but interested in going out. Be kind. Don't like anything mean or too kinky. And if you don't have a profile pic, don't be surprised if I don't respond. That said, I'm a lot of fun, so hit on me!
KeepingCadence
5740 mi
5740 mi
Updated March 24th, 2023
I've tried being nice, but apparently, some men seem to think I'm just playing coy. When I say NO MEN, that is EXACTLY what I mean. No exceptions. End of story. NO negotiating with terrorists. So sad, but no means no. Ladies, please feel free to message me anytime.
Men, I readily admit, I do not relate to men as you would seemingly want or hope that I might. Part of that is due to identifying as a lesbian, but also because I just do not think as you do. I may have lived as a man for most of my life, but it does not mean I understand you, relate to you or talk about the things you would like to talk about; Friendships with men are difficult for me, and if I am neither sexually interested in men nor able to relate to them, then I see very little purpose in befriending them. So asking to be my friend here will serve no purpose. So don't expect much attention from me.
Hi! I'm Cadence, a few friends here call me Peaches. I'm a 46-year-old trans-woman. I'm non-op (except for eventual Facial Feminization Surgery and breast augmentation. Divorced in 2012, single since 2018. I’ve been on HRT since 2015 and full-time since 2018) None of my pics are Faceapp, and I have a couple of polished photos by the photographer, and often use a makeup artist for some shoots. I'm a lesbian, Mommy, Domme/ Dominant personality with a very small, almost invisible swing side. I am actively looking for a sincere, real, meaningful relationship with a trans woman/ CISFemale. I'm not too concerned about what the relationship "looks like" so long as it's meaningful and sincere. Open to poly relationships, open to swinging relationships, open to open relationships, and an "ethical slut"... seeking women/ trans-women for potentially more. I'm not here for Any sort of cutesy roleplay, or cyber. What I'm seeking is something real, not any sort of game. I know I'm not every trans-girls cup of tea, the key is finding the one who sees me as her shot of tequila!!!
I am a sapiosexual and a demisexual. I'm here looking for authentic connections, the types of connections I desire, and always starting with friendship first; people who are willing to demonstrate effort and time to build at least a substantive friendship if nothing else. If one of your moves is calling me baby early on, and trying to create a sense of intimacy, that will not help you. Things like that need to develop organically, too much too soon is a turnoff. If you tend to lose interest, ghost people, or not hold up your part of the conversation, please keep moving. I won't chase you, I do not play those games, I beg for attention from no one.
Usage of words such as tranny, crossdresser, sissy, transvestite, Drag Queen, shemale, girly-boy(i), trap, ladyboy(I), gurl, slut, whore, or bitch...or any other such derivative words directed AT ME may result in my simply blocking you. They are so far from how I as an individual, identify; they would be completely inaccurate. Thank you for respecting the identity I've spent a lifetime getting to. This does not mean that I am not supportive of anyone who does identify as such, however.
Other Social Media- NO men, please.
321Sexchat- Cadence_Elizabeth
Fetlife- KeepingCadence
Kellibelle77
7949 mi
7949 mi
Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!
Lilly58
6378 mi
6378 mi
I am a trans woman. For many years, I was fascinated by people who were gender expansive. When I saw a person I thought was transgender, I couldn't help but to wonder what their life was like. And I couldn't help but to be a little envious of trans people who had the good fortune of being able to pursue their authentic selves.
I tried crossdressing on occasion but I was afraid of so many things, and I would keep Lilly stuffed in a box. One day, I found myself reading an article about women who transitioned later in life. After putting the question aside..."I wonder why I always find myself reading about trans people..." and finishing reading that article, my first thought was "well, I guess it's not too late for me then." And that's when I heard a little voice say to me..."don't you think that should tell you something, honey?" I guess you could say that is the moment my egg cracked.
Shortly after that, I started to dress as a woman, in earnest, in order to explore my feminine side.
I recently started HRT, and I would love to chat with anyone who cares to talk about their experience with HRT. I would also like to chat with other mature trans persons, particularly if you are in my area! If I don't get back to you right away, it might be because I am chatting with someone else and unable to multitask conversations!
I recently discovered a new exercise program called Zwift. It combines a stationary bike with a virtual world where you can ride with other people. It is a little hard to explain, but if there are any girls out there who are Zwifters, I would love to hear from you!
I am not interested in chatting with cisgender men at all. So if you are male and send me a greeting anyway, I simply will not respond.
michelleRich
6541 mi
6541 mi
I Started Cross dressing in my late 30s when I didn't have a job and was living with a girlfriend and I ran out of clothes. So I started wearing some of hers and could never stop. I had never even thought of it before. I doubt if I would have discovered it but not for being "forced" into it by circumstances. When I got out of the shower on a hot day one day and realized I had no clean clothes and nothing to wear in the closet). It struck me that I had to choose between dirty male underwear and clothes or clean female clothes. It was very embarrassing since I had been flying the world and then I had nothing, no car, cash, job, nothing. So I went with the clean female clothes. Then discovered that her closet full of unsold makeup created a person I did not recognize in the mirror. It was my alter ego I had not known existed.
Since then I enjoyed dressing up as a way to de-stress when I was broke and later when I had the money I did it to "be someone else for a while" and de-stress from herding cats in business. Then on one international legal trip, the ability to cross-dress might have saved my life when I was sent to Europe to check on a situation and discovered it was a scam by fraudsters. To make sure they didn't toss me into a canal, I found a shop in Amsterdam and bought some female attire and "went undercover" as a woman so if they came looking for a man whose photo they had seen on a website, only a woman would be visible, giving time to get away intact.
I rather enjoyed the whole episode. It was like a Cary Grant spy thriller and also playing the female part, which was a lot more fun. lol. I do admit going out to smoke a legal joint at night as a female, you do become aware of how females are naturally more cautious than men. And why.
I have never had a CD friend in all these years. I once went to church in Monterrey Mexico with my wife at the time while I was dressed as a woman and did some cities like Dallas and New Orleans in drag. She even liked sex when I was presenting as female and that was a turn-on. I am still my own girlfriend after all these years. lol. I may yet go trans in my 4th quarter of life because it feels so much better when I am fem. But, not there yet. Need a winning lotto ticket to take it to the next level. But for now, I'd be happy to meet some nice people with class who love being fem as I do. I am totally turned off by pushy and crudeness.
Final note: I happen to have a busy life working on building an entity I can sell and retire to the moon, so I may not even be here for a good while because it does take a LOT of time to manage, so don't take that as an insult if I don't respond to a note, or am late doing so. My life comes ahead of online alter egos.
But I do want to get to know gurls like me out there. I really enjoy your photos and your different looks. Women are so lucky to be able to cover up our age with makeup. Makeup turns a plow horse into a race horse, so you can imagine what it does for the race horses. lol. Later...!
RobinDenver
0 mi
0 mi
Not into Cyber sex, Its very helpful if you have a filled out profile and picture. Looking for friend and lover preferably local to Denver, GF, etc. A date would be lovely
I am single, masculine, fit, happy, open to age and gender, passionate, virile, bisexual man. enjoy getting outside, hiking, walking around. Nice drink, conversation, romance, seduction. Very much like a femme gal, I am not a first timer or here for some fantasy
safe, clean and DDF, chemistry and connection important.
Love kissing, touch, body contact for sure more preferred with that chemistry and connection thing :)
SamanthaNJ
5427 mi
5427 mi
Hi, older cd just looking for some friends and dominate individuals. Love to chat and see where things go.
sexylegs
6378 mi
6378 mi
my Jennifer love shopping and makeovers and photos done . Hanging out with both Crossdressers and transgender ladies and females too-love trying new changes.
Register
Sign On