I have been dressing up and wishing i could be a girl for as long as I can remember (a very long time), but I'm still in the closet. I've been out a couple of times in the past few years, and want to get out more, because I love it. I'm looking for friends for chatting and maybe some socializing. I am married, so any get togethers would have to be local. Travel is not possible.

I really dig this crazy life of mine. I like this site because it connects so many like-minded souls from around the globe. Isn't it amazing and kind of cool that a boy in a dress can stop traffic? Love yourself first. Only then can you build the capacity to love others. Really. That's the way it works! Kinda like when the flight attendant tells passengers that in the event of a loss in cabin pressure, they're to put on their own oxygen masks first before helping others. Just a thought. I do actually have some pretty good ones every now and then! Lastly, a favorite quote that seems quite fitting for me and many of those who I've met here at URNA: "For what it's worth: it's never too late, or too early to be whoever you want to be. There's no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you're proud of. If you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again." Benjamin Button

FYI…I may be embellishing my age, but I will never admit that! (Ive chosen to stop counting at 39), I was born and raised in Northern NJ, and my family is originally from Northern Ireland. I love being outdoors, especially with my German Shepherds. . I love camping, fishing, biking, traveling, going to concerts, going to the casinos, hiking, and football game road trips.. I consider myself a free spirit , so I can be super laid back, but being an Irish Jersey girl, I can be feisty (when it’s needed), and im blunt! But why dance around the topic when you can get to the truth a lot quicker . I have made several friends in this chat room as well as the old one… Some I consider lifelong friends… And there’s always room for more. I love talking to other trans people. When I began my transition at age 18, I was in desperate need of some help/guidance and received it from other trans girls from YouTube and other online resources (thank god) so im more than happy to pay it forward… and Im an open book, feel free to ask me anything! . If I do not respond to a private message, I do apologize. Most times I don’t even realize it, or I’m already chatting with someone. And sometimes I just like chatting in the lobby. But I always try to respond unless your rude to me or anyone else. We are all here for fun, friendship and relaxation. Let’s all try to keep it that way! Thanks everyone!

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I recently purchased a second home in the Tampa area and I am spending time there and still at my Virginia home. I am looking forward to exploring new opportunities and meeting new friends. I only ask that you read my complete profile below and respect my wishes as I am not here to waste my time or yours receiving silly notes and requests. I am retired and entering my next chapter which I am excited about. It offers me the opportunity to do things I have put off and focus on myself and expand my social network. I hope to meet others out there close to my age and interested in sharing experiences and interests, but I am not looking for mindless or fantasy exchanges. IF You don't have a photo in your profile and you aren't close to my age I DOUBT I will respond. This isn't a hobby or an escape for me as it is the real me. I really would like to get together with other ladies to shop, socialize, and just go out. Guys, I am open to a date and like outdoor activities. I am a water person that loves boating and her jet ski and also a bit of a gear head that loves classic cars and shows. For those who haven't met or chatted with me, I am a transgendered lady who is very active and adventurous and always open to having fun and expanding my experiences. I have been a part of this wonderful community for many years and quite comfortable being who I am. I have been on an incredible journey of self discovery going down different paths along the way. I have many passions but especially enjoy stimulating conversations, fine bourbons and wine, leather and lace, and of course shopping for funky and sexy outfits that match my many varied moods. While I find labels rather restricting in describing me, I do consider myself bisexual as it's more about who the person is inside that I find myself attracted to. I do prefer someone close in age and has many interests to share besides just the boudoir. I also enjoy doing makeovers and helping others out in any way. I was lucky to have a few mentors over the years that were willing to help me along the way so I believe in giving back wherever I can.