An almost 50 year old cross dresser that really would love to finally go on a date. I prefer older gentleman with pictures .. just saying

12/08/23. Began my transition (first day of HRT) 12/06/24 moved in with my sister in Mount Holly NC! 03/06/25 Found out that I have had several strokes in my brain, Neurologist wants to do additional testing to see how bad things really are. 03/10/25 Found out that I have essential Thrombocythemia which will lead to Leukemia 06/15/25 an MRI on my back revealed that I have severe spinal stenosis, which may require surgery. Life just keeps getting better. Oh and an enlarged spleen! WTF? 08/06/25 My neurologist, says that my brain issue is not operable and we are going to try every medication we can to keep the migraines under control. She’s also requesting approval from the VA to give lidocaine injections in the back of my head to hopefully minimize the migraines. 08/10/25 during a visit with my sister today I was sitting in a chair next to her bed and she reached out to me with her left hand, so I stood up and held her hand. Suddenly, she looked straight up at the ceiling and pointed up with her right hand and said softly., “ he’s calling me”. It took everything I had not to break down right there! 8/11/25. My sister is supposed to have her final evaluation before she moves into hospice!!! 8/20/25 I received six lidocaine injections in my back to give me relief from my back. The pain subsided for one day and then returned. The doctor also said that I have two vertebrae that seem to be missing small chunks and my back is inoperable 9/2/25 My sister passed early this morning at 12:07 AM. God I’m going to miss her. 9/12/25 Buried my sister today with her husband. Every time I think about her, I cry. I love her so much. 9/21/25 Finally connected on Facebook with my second cousin, who is a transgender woman living in Hawaii. We spent hours chatting with each other. I think I might move to Hawaii!! 10/10/25 I can’t move to Hawaii because I would have to be homeless for a year before the state will help me find somewhere to live ! 9/25/25 I have a meeting with an organization to help me file a new claim with the VA so that I can get an increase in my VA disability. Wish me luck. It only took me 20 years to get my initial rating from the VA. 11/4/25 my oncologist, can’t write a Nexus letter to get my VA disability increased. I guess I’m stuck where I’m at. 10/21/25 I had four injections in the back of my head that were supposed to help me with my daily migraines. Gave me intense pain in the back of my head for one day and then my migraines returned. Not much hope for anything. I’m totally screwed.!!! 11/11/25 I had an appointment with my endocrinologist today and she confirms that I need to reduce my spironolactone to see if that will lower my potassium levels. She’s also going to put in for a referral so that I might be able to get an orchiectomy and not have to take the spironolactone at all. KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED.! 11/25/25 just received a call from the VA and they are denying my referral for urology/surgery because it’s associated with transgender healthcare and it is not covered. So I guess unless I find 10 or $12,000 or quit taking the testosterone blocker I will be developing kidney disease and dying painfully. Not exactly the joyful life I had envisioned when I began my transition. 11/28/25 I received a message and then visited with my primary care doctor this morning and the VA has reversed themselves, they have approved the referral to the urologist and are willing to proceed however, the urologist decides. I have an appointment on Tuesday morning with the urologist. Hopefully he will agree with me and proceed to surgery. Wish me luck, 12/2/25 I met with a urologist today and he is prepared to perform the orchiectomy just as soon as I can get clearance from the VA and get an updated clearance from a psychiatrist or psychotherapist. I have an appointment on 17 December to get that letter, but I fear it will take the VA much longer as I was hoping to get this procedure done before the end of the year. 12/5/25 I received a call from the VA today and was informed that they had approved me to get the orchiectomy. I just need to get a psychiatric evaluation which I have scheduled for 17 December and the surgeon is telling me once he gets the psychiatrist’s letter he can schedule me for surgery in 6 to 8 weeks which should be late January to early February. 1/6/26 had blood work done to check my estrogen level and I’m at an all-time high of 289. 1/13/26 had an appointment with the psychiatrist today to get final approval for my orchiectomy 1/15/26 I received my approval from the psychiatrist and forwarded it to the urologist so that I can get the orchiectomy scheduled. 1/23/26 I got my orchiectomy scheduled for 25 February 2/5/26 My surgery was canceled by the VA today because of an executive order Mr. Trump put out in January 2025 prohibiting any gender affirming surgeries for any reason. Thank you, Mr. President. 2/6/26 my latest bloodwork shows my estrogen level has dropped to 170. My Endocrinologist is happy about that, but I’m not. 3/18/26 I moved out of my niece’s house and moved in with a new lady friend Monica. She’s absolutely wonderful and she travels a lot so that means I’ll have the house to myself most of the time. Things are starting to look up.

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