Fun, flirty, submissive gurl looking out to make friends

cd, loves to chat and play

Love to chat and get to know new people, into music and shopping.

Just a Kentucky part time crossdresser. Pictures are here. Hope you like them. . http://costumeluver.deviantart.com/ https://www.flickr.com/photos/7920447@N02/ You can private me but be nice and I might be nice back. Don't make it time to not be nice. I love tights and pantyhose. I also love leotards. Is there some reason you are still reading this. Did you notice it was changed? I like it when people can actually see my photos and tell me what they saw in them, like what I am wearing in the first pictures they see.

Hi! I'm a 39-year-old single woman who's ready to start a new chapter in my life. I'm looking for someone who is honest, caring, and loving. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect. I'm excited to meet someone who is genuine and kind-hearted. I'm open to getting to know you and seeing where things might go. Let's take things slow and see if we can connect on a deeper level."

I have a great life. Looking for friends and maybe some fun. ALWAYS been a woman on the inside, can't always show it on the outside..Feel so alone sometimes, so I never mind chatting. I'm open and hard to offend, say hello :) XOXO, Kay

I am captivated by the enchantment of Dominance, states of acquiescence and the exploration of the submissive mind. I will penetrate your suppressed cravings?

I'm a closet CD with an interest in men and interest in DOM women (GG). I am a sub bottom-only. Here to chat and meet new people online. Not interested in real time hookups or meeting in-person. I DO NOT TOP, so please don't ask.

Fabulously Fem Crossdresser since the age of 12 and love being fem, sissy, femboy.

Hi Sugar :) I look for the good in people, enjoy good conversation, laughs and fun with close friends... I am looking for like-minded transgender girlfriends and admirers! Come meet me at one of my HeartlandTG events sometime! Warmest hugs, Hanna xoxoxo HeartlandTG.com PS No AI or camera app fakery has been used on my pix, though it is cool if others do it with their pix. My pix show me as you will see me in real life xo

Just a shy cross dresser

Part time cross dresser. I love transforming into Jenny and then being ultra fem. I am submissive and like to talk with men, but also enjoy hearing from other dressers. Role play is always an option, fun and erotic scenes. Drop me a line.

Hi. Long time crossdresser interested in fun chat with others like me. Men too if they are nice. mostly closet, but interested in going out. Be kind. Don't like anything mean or too kinky. And if you don't have a profile pic, don't be surprised if I don't respond. That said, I'm a lot of fun, so hit on me!

Hi everyone! I'm just your average(but, then again, are any of us girls "average"??) transgirl....though, really, in my own mind, I've felt this way for a LONG time. But, it would be nice to have the "visuals" to align with my heart and soul. Current "stats": 6'2", 134 lbs, 38(someday)-28-34, auburn hair, brown eyes...i.e., just another whispy transsexual gal, eagerly wanting to begin a "new life", and, truly, finally BE what I should have been all along. On here, I mostly like to chat with other TG's, CD's, GGs etc., but I'll chat with anyone who's nice. What do I like to wear, you ask? Well, if it's pink....;-) After almost 8 years of marriage, and around 10 of knowing one another, my wife and I are no longer married. We will always love one another, in some way, of that I have no doubt. I hope she does find love again...I know she certainly deserves such happiness. I have been SO fortunate to have had her in my life for the past 10 years. Love you always, BJ! UPDATE!!:(12/7/2007) I am now officially "Out"! :-) Thank you to Miranda, Eve, Marie, Kelly, Lola, and many other girls out there in Beautiful San Francisco--You made my first night out, on my birthday no less, a beautiful time! And, also, that same weekend, I came out to my brother and his wife--they will support me! Omg, what a weekend!! SCC was THE best time!! Please read my journal. :-) I am a single woman now. Not exactly sure what that means, or where I go from here....but, along with transitioning, it will certainly not be uneventful! ;-) I'm very excited about my life though! I became divorced March 13th(yes Friday) 2009. The day after I began my full time as a woman.! ?? And it’s been wonderful ever since! My now former spouse passed in June 2016, lymphoma. She was my first my first love ever. She didn’t accept my being a woman but she tried. Peace be upon her. The friendships I have made here, and elsewhere online, have enriched my life beyond measure...Thank you to all who have befriended me, and made me feel like I truly belong. I really do love you all!! ((HUGS)) After I moved to Northern California (after 50 years living in southern Illinois) in 2010 I had roommates for the first time ever. They have all known about me all those years—Thank you every one of you!! Hugs. I worked at a Walmart for 12 years, and most employees were good to me, many of them became great friends thankfully! I’m medically retired now, disability, though physically I am well. I had a stroke June 2015, and the main cause was hormones (on them for 3 years prior)…aphasia, left side, speech side, and I had speech therapy for 6 months. Mostly well now. I’ve had intestinal problems most of my adult life, still dealing with it. A year after the stroke my doctors and my endocrinologist said I could get breast augmentation surgery, so I did, October 3 2016–the happiest moment!! This year in March I needed to get breast reconstruction surgery, left implant was leaking. But all good now! ?? I love these gorgeous girls here!! ( yes, a few men also. ?) You’ve been so kind and helpful and wonderful to me—Thank You!!! ??? Anyway.... thank you URNA! Vicky, Jon, you do a wonderful service on here. Congratulations on 10 years! Please say "Hii!" sometime, girls! Take care everyone. ((HUGS)) And to everyone else who have made this website what it really is: L O V E

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

12/08/23. Began my transition (first day of HRT) 12/06/24 moved in with my sister in Mount Holly NC! 03/06/25 Found out that I have had several strokes in my brain, Neurologist wants to do additional testing to see how bad things really are. 03/10/25 Found out that I have essential Thrombocythemia which will lead to Leukemia 06/15/25 an MRI on my back revealed that I have severe spinal stenosis, which may require surgery. Life just keeps getting better. Oh and an enlarged spleen! WTF? 08/06/25 My neurologist, says that my brain issue is not operable and we are going to try every medication we can to keep the migraines under control. She’s also requesting approval from the VA to give lidocaine injections in the back of my head to hopefully minimize the migraines. 08/10/25 during a visit with my sister today I was sitting in a chair next to her bed and she reached out to me with her left hand, so I stood up and held her hand. Suddenly, she looked straight up at the ceiling and pointed up with her right hand and said softly., “ he’s calling me”. It took everything I had not to break down right there! 8/11/25. My sister is supposed to have her final evaluation before she moves into hospice!!! 8/20/25 I received six lidocaine injections in my back to give me relief from my back. The pain subsided for one day and then returned. The doctor also said that I have two vertebrae that seem to be missing small chunks and my back is inoperable 9/2/25 My sister passed early this morning at 12:07 AM. God I’m going to miss her. 9/12/25 Buried my sister today with her husband. Every time I think about her, I cry. I love her so much. 9/21/25 Finally connected on Facebook with my second cousin, who is a transgender woman living in Hawaii. We spent hours chatting with each other. I think I might move to Hawaii!! 10/10/25 I can’t move to Hawaii because I would have to be homeless for a year before the state will help me find somewhere to live ! 9/25/25 I have a meeting with an organization to help me file a new claim with the VA so that I can get an increase in my VA disability. Wish me luck. It only took me 20 years to get my initial rating from the VA. 11/4/25 my oncologist, can’t write a Nexus letter to get my VA disability increased. I guess I’m stuck where I’m at. 10/21/25 I had four injections in the back of my head that were supposed to help me with my daily migraines. Gave me intense pain in the back of my head for one day and then my migraines returned. Not much hope for anything. I’m totally screwed.!!! 11/11/25 I had an appointment with my endocrinologist today and she confirms that I need to reduce my spironolactone to see if that will lower my potassium levels. She’s also going to put in for a referral so that I might be able to get an orchiectomy and not have to take the spironolactone at all. KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED.! 11/25/25 just received a call from the VA and they are denying my referral for urology/surgery because it’s associated with transgender healthcare and it is not covered. So I guess unless I find 10 or $12,000 or quit taking the testosterone blocker I will be developing kidney disease and dying painfully. Not exactly the joyful life I had envisioned when I began my transition. 11/28/25 I received a message and then visited with my primary care doctor this morning and the VA has reversed themselves, they have approved the referral to the urologist and are willing to proceed however, the urologist decides. I have an appointment on Tuesday morning with the urologist. Hopefully he will agree with me and proceed to surgery. Wish me luck, 12/2/25 I met with a urologist today and he is prepared to perform the orchiectomy just as soon as I can get clearance from the VA and get an updated clearance from a psychiatrist or psychotherapist. I have an appointment on 17 December to get that letter, but I fear it will take the VA much longer as I was hoping to get this procedure done before the end of the year. 12/5/25 I received a call from the VA today and was informed that they had approved me to get the orchiectomy. I just need to get a psychiatric evaluation which I have scheduled for 17 December and the surgeon is telling me once he gets the psychiatrist’s letter he can schedule me for surgery in 6 to 8 weeks which should be late January to early February. 1/6/26 had blood work done to check my estrogen level and I’m at an all-time high of 289. 1/13/26 had an appointment with the psychiatrist today to get final approval for my orchiectomy 1/15/26 I received my approval from the psychiatrist and forwarded it to the urologist so that I can get the orchiectomy scheduled. 1/23/26 I got my orchiectomy scheduled for 25 February 2/5/26 My surgery was canceled by the VA today because of an executive order Mr. Trump put out in January 2025 prohibiting any gender affirming surgeries for any reason. Thank you, Mr. President. 2/6/26 my latest bloodwork shows my estrogen level has dropped to 170. My Endocrinologist is happy about that, but I’m not. 3/18/26 I moved out of my niece’s house and moved in with a new lady friend Monica. She’s absolutely wonderful and she travels a lot so that means I’ll have the house to myself most of the time. Things are starting to look up.

I want to have fun not just to live, but find people who want to experience a fun filled day, every day. Hopefully I can surround myself with other like minded friends and new family, even a love or two or three. I do really love to try new stuff, explore new things, and have new adventures. I am easily distracted so I have to stay busy or I will loose my focus, lol. You would or should know I wont let you down if you are a man looking for love, looking for a gurl a woman who understands you, or wanting to be and try something different, I am your perfect gurl. I understand a man needs to attention when he needs it, for example when he is hungry I will have something ready, when he is tired I will help him rest. When my man is stressed I will de=stress him, the best I can. Buy to be honest I would love to be a home maker, I think it is a role that is being looked down upon. A strong woman at the home helps keep the family together, strong families make a better country and place to live in. So yeah I would love to be your wife, at home, sharing an adventure together. If you are a woman we still will enjoy each other, I will love to get together for more lady like fun, slumber party, makeup days or even a girls night out. You never know how a person can find their soul mate, we could be the best fit for each other. Sharing similar likes, wants, needs and desires - so please reach out and say a little something. So please, message me, send a picture, feel free to be who you are! Express yourself right from the beginning, we already have to walk on eggshells lets not do that here, it is safe to be who you want to be or need to be.

Sexy, sassy, solacious, passionate and playful. Want to play? Cum kiss me.

I'm a shy CD

Curious I'm not bi or a cross dresser. But have thoughts of being with all types. Need to see if these desires truly gwt as excited as they do while thinking of them. Hopefully you can be that excitement. Bottom Line ,fact is I'm thinking more and more I need F someone & have some F%&@ ms and more to be sure. Am I wrong?

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