Just a safe sane reasonable admirer in Philly looking for chats and meets

Enjoying conversation with kindred souls.

Looking to chat, meet new people and see where it goes ;) ..not looking for robots, handouts, spam or bs so dont waste my time. If you want a genuine, caring and stimulating conversation feel free to msg me :)

Mature southern cd who's been an off and on member for years. I'm really just here to chat with other girls. Guys, sorry, but not so much.

Easy going guy from Amsterdam (The Netherlands), happy to talk to anyone, as typically the chat company is interesting and fun.

Closet CD (M2F). Just wondering around here. A little (a lot) curious.

50-something year old closet crossdresser. I'm married and my wife does not know, nor does anyone else, and as of right now I prefer to keep it that way. Looking for friends-other crossdressers, trans women and women. NO MEN! Not into cyber/role play. Please be respectful.

I had my first experience with crossdressing when I was in my teens. I had a "boy friend" when I was 13 who used to bring a bag of his sister's things when he would come over to visit. Bras, panties, slips, pantyhose and cute little dresses. We would dress up and lay in bed and hold each other and make out. I loved it. Lasted about a year and they moved out of the area and I never saw or heard from him again. I love the feeling of sliding a sexy pair of smooth silky panties on and then posing for myself in the mirror. I luv the feel of sliding on a pair of pantyhose, and the way my little panties show thru my pantyhose. Just incredibly happy to be able to participate in this wonderful (Choose one): Lifestyle, Hobby, Quirk, or Folly. Just someone who loves womens clothing. Especially when I'm wearing them, and the heavenly feeling that comes with that. For those of you that dress you know what I mean! Activities: Dressing up, either a little or alot and all points in between & Love to Admire too ! Sincere & Discrete ! KEEP PRETTY ! Deana E-Mail Address is crsdrsdee@aol.com

HI gurls..Gracefully aging long time CD ...Same story as most here..Starting young etc. Love : music, classic cars, motorcycles, the great outdoors and dressing of course. Enjoy talking with others like myself and would love to get together with other girls this year and explore our gift.Love Dressing, shopping and Pic play !!Enjoy getting out for walks and window shopping. My own hair is now over my shoulders ,silver/gray. I stay slim and maintain a girly figure. Really enjoy women's fashion. Any "girl" musicians looking to jam ? Thanks SO much for support, your all wonderful. !!! NOT interested in men !! AGAIN NO MEN !!!NO MEN, NO MEN !!!!Got out more this year for walks, hikes, beach strolls etc. Hope to even more in 2025. NO MEN , NO MEN.

always horny

Mid 40’s dad looking to explore together

Just a gentleman looking for something special...

Mature male into crossdressing. Looking to talk with and meet others interested in the cross-dressing lifestyle for friendship and get togethers. Not interested in one night stands or hookups hopefully friendship leading into a long-term relationship. Began dressing in my mid teens back in the late '60s started with my mother's lingerie and underwear. Wearing her playtex bras if you were born back then and around my age then you would know this they were the kind that had the missile cup style and her girdles and her granny panties which were satin and everything used to be white with slips her pantyhose her seemed lined stockings and her makeup.. it continued as I am today I'm 64 years old and never lost a desire or the interest to dress I'm not passable but at times I do fully dress at home for myself with the makeup I love wearing lipstick. Love to chat with others who enjoy our lifestyle especially if you remember back in the days of the late '60s or early '70s with Mom's things like I did be pretty cool to reminisce about the times back in the days so to speak. Also enjoy speaking to anybody who's in in or enjoys our lifestyle about the transition in time to where we are now with a clothing I'm like a kid at Christmas when I go online shopping especially for all the different kind of lingerie which I absolutely love things corsets stockings shoes love bras strapless or with straps lock in the back snap in the front anything it has to do Fem I would love to chat with other ladies or girls like me or men or admirers who are into it too anybody that shares our lifestyle I would love to chat with. Thanks for checking out my profile My name is Gerri . Outside of crossdressing I enjoy going to auto shows car racing baseball games hockey games. Also enjoy going to enjoy dinner lunch brunches with just to go out and have a drink sounds good to me.

Here looking for friendship, chat and to explore neew experiances

Closet CD looking to connect and break out of shell.

I love satin

Time is precious. May your journey allow you to always live your truth and be the best version of you. Seeking a beautiful soul who has embraced themselves wholly and are truly comfortable in their own skin. Communication and listening are just some of the tools that come naturally to them. A loving, kind and caring spirit who is truly open to connecting with another on a deeper level. A soul that wants to nurture the best version of themselves and all others they meet along the journey. On the romantic side they gravitate toward the submissive side. Let's chat and see where it goes. A little about me. Am a romantic at heart,. Have been told that I am positive, attractive,, in good shape, respectful, supportive, fun, caring, loving, a good communicator who truly listens and sees the good in all. A gentle, nurturing, loving and kind spirit that can truly connect with another on a deeper level. Always striving to bring out the best in all. From a moonlight walk along the ocean to a candle light dinner in front of a roaring fireplace, am looking forward to creating precious memories that last a lifetime. More to come soon.

I am a 74 year old Crossdresser. Have been crossdressing since I was 7 or 8 years old. I started at a time when I thought I was the only one. It has only been in the last 15 years that I have realized I was not the only one. Since I am married and my wife does not know. I dress as often as I can at home, and have been to a club in Calgary dressed as Jenny. I like wearing skirts, tops and dresses. I guess the usual, and I like wearing makeup and looking pretty if that is possible.

Hi everyone. New here but long time admirer. Nice and friendly. Hope to meet new and interesting people. Looking for fun conversation and making friends....maybe more!

Hi I'm Jim from New York I"m 62 5'8 170 grey hair blue eyes, a very nice and sincere intelligent person. I current work for a advertising company in their legal department. I like all kinds of sports, like to read, do bowl a few times a week. Interested in forming a nice friendship/relationship hopefully leading into more with an intelligent person. If that's you if were in chat please send a message or email me, so we can get to know each other better. I hope to hear from you soon!!!

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

I'm a cross dresser and effeminate by nature. I feel that my body is male, but my heart is female. I wish I had the vocabulary of the modern LGBTQ movement 25 years ago. I do much better in the company of women that trying to bluff my way thru with men. I've been self-saddled with body image insecurities about my arms and wrists since I was a child. Only recently have I been able to wear sleeveless dresses. I am sorta on the heavy side and envious of everyone with a waist!! I'm a social democrat, liberal in love and laughter and a free thinker. If you engage on these topics, please prepare accordingly. I really go for Black men and have ever since I met my first boyfriend in 1990 when i was 24. That turned the tide for me and tho I was married, divorced and remarried, the attraction to Black men never abated. The rumors are true, ladies, is all I will say in order to keep it a little clean here. Please for the love of whatever you think is holy, no talk of football or any other team sport. I've literally nothing to contribute. I've no idea what you are talking about. xoxoxox Kim

Single. Gentleman admirer of feminine women. I have dated cd and tg women. Feel free to message me. I rarely follow / chat in the Lobby, because who cares about the weather.

12/08/23. Began my transition (first day of HRT) 12/06/24 moved in with my sister in Mount Holly NC! 03/06/25 Found out that I have had several strokes in my brain, Neurologist wants to do additional testing to see how bad things really are. 03/10/25 Found out that I have essential Thrombocythemia which will lead to Leukemia 06/15/25 an MRI on my back revealed that I have severe spinal stenosis, which may require surgery. Life just keeps getting better. Oh and an enlarged spleen! WTF? 08/06/25 My neurologist, says that my brain issue is not operable and we are going to try every medication we can to keep the migraines under control. She’s also requesting approval from the VA to give lidocaine injections in the back of my head to hopefully minimize the migraines. 08/10/25 during a visit with my sister today I was sitting in a chair next to her bed and she reached out to me with her left hand, so I stood up and held her hand. Suddenly, she looked straight up at the ceiling and pointed up with her right hand and said softly., “ he’s calling me”. It took everything I had not to break down right there! 8/11/25. My sister is supposed to have her final evaluation before she moves into hospice!!! 8/20/25 I received six lidocaine injections in my back to give me relief from my back. The pain subsided for one day and then returned. The doctor also said that I have two vertebrae that seem to be missing small chunks and my back is inoperable 9/2/25 My sister passed early this morning at 12:07 AM. God I’m going to miss her. 9/12/25 Buried my sister today with her husband. Every time I think about her, I cry. I love her so much. 9/21/25 Finally connected on Facebook with my second cousin, who is a transgender woman living in Hawaii. We spent hours chatting with each other. I think I might move to Hawaii!! 10/10/25 I can’t move to Hawaii because I would have to be homeless for a year before the state will help me find somewhere to live ! 9/25/25 I have a meeting with an organization to help me file a new claim with the VA so that I can get an increase in my VA disability. Wish me luck. It only took me 20 years to get my initial rating from the VA. 11/4/25 my oncologist, can’t write a Nexus letter to get my VA disability increased. I guess I’m stuck where I’m at. 10/21/25 I had four injections in the back of my head that were supposed to help me with my daily migraines. Gave me intense pain in the back of my head for one day and then my migraines returned. Not much hope for anything. I’m totally screwed.!!! 11/11/25 I had an appointment with my endocrinologist today and she confirms that I need to reduce my spironolactone to see if that will lower my potassium levels. She’s also going to put in for a referral so that I might be able to get an orchiectomy and not have to take the spironolactone at all. KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED.! 11/25/25 just received a call from the VA and they are denying my referral for urology/surgery because it’s associated with transgender healthcare and it is not covered. So I guess unless I find 10 or $12,000 or quit taking the testosterone blocker I will be developing kidney disease and dying painfully. Not exactly the joyful life I had envisioned when I began my transition. 11/28/25 I received a message and then visited with my primary care doctor this morning and the VA has reversed themselves, they have approved the referral to the urologist and are willing to proceed however, the urologist decides. I have an appointment on Tuesday morning with the urologist. Hopefully he will agree with me and proceed to surgery. Wish me luck, 12/2/25 I met with a urologist today and he is prepared to perform the orchiectomy just as soon as I can get clearance from the VA and get an updated clearance from a psychiatrist or psychotherapist. I have an appointment on 17 December to get that letter, but I fear it will take the VA much longer as I was hoping to get this procedure done before the end of the year. 12/5/25 I received a call from the VA today and was informed that they had approved me to get the orchiectomy. I just need to get a psychiatric evaluation which I have scheduled for 17 December and the surgeon is telling me once he gets the psychiatrist’s letter he can schedule me for surgery in 6 to 8 weeks which should be late January to early February. 1/6/26 had blood work done to check my estrogen level and I’m at an all-time high of 289. 1/13/26 had an appointment with the psychiatrist today to get final approval for my orchiectomy 1/15/26 I received my approval from the psychiatrist and forwarded it to the urologist so that I can get the orchiectomy scheduled. 1/23/26 I got my orchiectomy scheduled for 25 February 2/5/26 My surgery was canceled by the VA today because of an executive order Mr. Trump put out in January 2025 prohibiting any gender affirming surgeries for any reason. Thank you, Mr. President. 2/6/26 my latest bloodwork shows my estrogen level has dropped to 170. My Endocrinologist is happy about that, but I’m not. 3/18/26 I moved out of my niece’s house and moved in with a new lady friend Monica. She’s absolutely wonderful and she travels a lot so that means I’ll have the house to myself most of the time. Things are starting to look up.