I value respect, honesty, and clear communication. I’m big on good energy, good conversation, and mutual attraction. Labels don’t define me as much as how someone treats me. If you’re curious, ask respectfully. If you’re confident, we’ll get along just fine.

I have been dressing up and wishing i could be a girl for as long as I can remember (a very long time), but I'm still in the closet. I've been out a couple of times in the past few years, and want to get out more, because I love it. I'm looking for friends for chatting and maybe some socializing. I am married, so any get togethers would have to be local. Travel is not possible.

IMPORTANT: Anyone who is a MAGA or Trump supporter, do not bother to contact me and feel free to block me!! Sixty+ years young TV/CD, into all fun aspects of being femme, 6' (without heels), 180 lbs, eyes gray, long legs, D/DD cup. Love girdles, corsets, fascinators, long dangly and hoop earrings, seamed stockings, fishnet, PH, leggings, hobble/pencil skirts, red lipstick and nails, long dresses, thigh boots and 6 inch high-heels. Love girlie cleavage and everything femme. A few photos include light FaceApp background edits to protect my privacy and keep the focus on the fantasy. Some video content uses creative generation tools to help visualize my imagination. ALL my modified photos use my original photo as the reference. Despite what certain photos suggest, I’m a non-smoker. xo D Websites https://flickr.com/photos/darlasinclair/ https://xhamster.com/users/darla2014 https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2N1C2FLAGKG3O?ref_=wl_share Scenarios/Photoshoots - Mature Secretary - 1950s Retro (swing dress, crinoline, high heels) - Maid Service (maid outfit, fishnet stockings, high heels) - "Rear window" - voyeur photoshoot - Mother of the Bride - Evening Wear (Long Sequin Dress, Black Maxi Dress, Mermaid Dress) - A night at the Opera - Partywear - Wedding Guest - Outdoors - Vintage Hollywood Movie Star - Housewifey - Ultimate Femme - Out and about with hidden bondage - Swimsuit Edition - What lies beneath (Classy/elegantly dressed lady is slowly unwrapped to show lingerie, stockings/suspenders, etc.) - Catsuit - Biker Chick (Leather or Latex, full face helmet, boots) - Tight-laced (Corsetry, Thigh boots) - Flapper Girl (1920s dress) - Cougar (Leopard Print, underwear, dress) - Ultimate Femme (pregnant) - Nightwear (Babydoll, Pegnoir, Silk) - Fur (Faux Fur Jacket over lingerie, various states of undress, outside shoot would be great) - Belle of the Ball (Ball Gown) - Décolletage (an exploration of cleavage) - Wrapped in Vinyl (everything PVC) - Bedroom Slut - GILF - Bound to please - Damsel in Distress - Leather (Dress, Skirt, Trench Coat) - Latex (Catsuit, Hobble Dress/Skirt) - High class escort - Lipstick lesbians == Results from bdsmtest.org == 87% Submissive 83% Rope bunny 74% Exhibitionist 65% Vanilla 62% Experimentalist 60% Switch 58% Masochist 52% Degradee 51% Voyeur 48% Brat 45% Primal (Prey) 39% Dominant 37% Rigger 36% Slave 30% Pet 29% Non-monogamist 26% Brat tamer 26% Master/Mistress 24% Boy/Girl 22% Sadist 20% Owner 16% Primal (Hunter) 15% Degrader 11% Ageplayer 6% Daddy/Mommy Those numbers don’t lie… I’m nothing more than a glossy-lipped, corseted doll to be bound, gagged, and broken in. Tie me so tight the ropes bite, mark me as your pet, and remind me I’m here only to please.

I am an older, mature, discreet, closeted married crossdresser. My stats are 5'7" height, about 160 lbs. My measurements are about 40b-32-36. I started dressing very late, I was 39, when an older man in a chat room asked if I would for him.. I enjoy this part of me but don't get to express it much unless alone or traveling on the road. I have been with men, couples and one tg. I am looking for friends, for fun chat, fun times, both erotic and platonic, both with benefits and without.

Crossdresser in central NJ looking for likeminded friends. Like most of us I started at a young age with my mom's clothes and never outgrew it. It is only within the past 10 years or so that I started to take my dressing more seriously and work on my makeup skills and started to venture out dressed. I would love to find other girls to spend time together with, whether private moments alone or going out shopping or to clubs.

Looking for fun and maybe more....

She no longer knows who she was. This is her only life now. Her wife and ex-gf have trained her as sissy girl. The training plays any time her laptop is turned on https://bambicloud.com/playlist/1f8ba4e9-5929-488e-9412-36cd1635435f. Lost who she was in her mind. Both have bf's now, she am left in the middle. They have herlisten to training files constantly now, she wakes only knowing she is Bambi or Jessica. She pleases their hot men, and IDK why she put that here. Favorite singers: Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, Taylor Swift

Hi. Long time crossdresser interested in fun chat with others like me. Men too if they are nice. mostly closet, but interested in going out. Be kind. Don't like anything mean or too kinky. And if you don't have a profile pic, don't be surprised if I don't respond. That said, I'm a lot of fun, so hit on me!

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

12/08/23. Began my transition (first day of HRT) 12/06/24 moved in with my sister in Mount Holly NC! 03/06/25 Found out that I have had several strokes in my brain, Neurologist wants to do additional testing to see how bad things really are. 03/10/25 Found out that I have essential Thrombocythemia which will lead to Leukemia 06/15/25 an MRI on my back revealed that I have severe spinal stenosis, which may require surgery. Life just keeps getting better. Oh and an enlarged spleen! WTF? 08/06/25 My neurologist, says that my brain issue is not operable and we are going to try every medication we can to keep the migraines under control. She’s also requesting approval from the VA to give lidocaine injections in the back of my head to hopefully minimize the migraines. 08/10/25 during a visit with my sister today I was sitting in a chair next to her bed and she reached out to me with her left hand, so I stood up and held her hand. Suddenly, she looked straight up at the ceiling and pointed up with her right hand and said softly., “ he’s calling me”. It took everything I had not to break down right there! 8/11/25. My sister is supposed to have her final evaluation before she moves into hospice!!! 8/20/25 I received six lidocaine injections in my back to give me relief from my back. The pain subsided for one day and then returned. The doctor also said that I have two vertebrae that seem to be missing small chunks and my back is inoperable 9/2/25 My sister passed early this morning at 12:07 AM. God I’m going to miss her. 9/12/25 Buried my sister today with her husband. Every time I think about her, I cry. I love her so much. 9/21/25 Finally connected on Facebook with my second cousin, who is a transgender woman living in Hawaii. We spent hours chatting with each other. I think I might move to Hawaii!! 10/10/25 I can’t move to Hawaii because I would have to be homeless for a year before the state will help me find somewhere to live ! 9/25/25 I have a meeting with an organization to help me file a new claim with the VA so that I can get an increase in my VA disability. Wish me luck. It only took me 20 years to get my initial rating from the VA. 11/4/25 my oncologist, can’t write a Nexus letter to get my VA disability increased. I guess I’m stuck where I’m at. 10/21/25 I had four injections in the back of my head that were supposed to help me with my daily migraines. Gave me intense pain in the back of my head for one day and then my migraines returned. Not much hope for anything. I’m totally screwed.!!! 11/11/25 I had an appointment with my endocrinologist today and she confirms that I need to reduce my spironolactone to see if that will lower my potassium levels. She’s also going to put in for a referral so that I might be able to get an orchiectomy and not have to take the spironolactone at all. KEEPING MY FINGERS CROSSED.! 11/25/25 just received a call from the VA and they are denying my referral for urology/surgery because it’s associated with transgender healthcare and it is not covered. So I guess unless I find 10 or $12,000 or quit taking the testosterone blocker I will be developing kidney disease and dying painfully. Not exactly the joyful life I had envisioned when I began my transition. 11/28/25 I received a message and then visited with my primary care doctor this morning and the VA has reversed themselves, they have approved the referral to the urologist and are willing to proceed however, the urologist decides. I have an appointment on Tuesday morning with the urologist. Hopefully he will agree with me and proceed to surgery. Wish me luck, 12/2/25 I met with a urologist today and he is prepared to perform the orchiectomy just as soon as I can get clearance from the VA and get an updated clearance from a psychiatrist or psychotherapist. I have an appointment on 17 December to get that letter, but I fear it will take the VA much longer as I was hoping to get this procedure done before the end of the year. 12/5/25 I received a call from the VA today and was informed that they had approved me to get the orchiectomy. I just need to get a psychiatric evaluation which I have scheduled for 17 December and the surgeon is telling me once he gets the psychiatrist’s letter he can schedule me for surgery in 6 to 8 weeks which should be late January to early February. 1/6/26 had blood work done to check my estrogen level and I’m at an all-time high of 289. 1/13/26 had an appointment with the psychiatrist today to get final approval for my orchiectomy 1/15/26 I received my approval from the psychiatrist and forwarded it to the urologist so that I can get the orchiectomy scheduled. 1/23/26 I got my orchiectomy scheduled for 25 February 2/5/26 My surgery was canceled by the VA today because of an executive order Mr. Trump put out in January 2025 prohibiting any gender affirming surgeries for any reason. Thank you, Mr. President. 2/6/26 my latest bloodwork shows my estrogen level has dropped to 170. My Endocrinologist is happy about that, but I’m not. 3/18/26 I moved out of my niece’s house and moved in with a new lady friend Monica. She’s absolutely wonderful and she travels a lot so that means I’ll have the house to myself most of the time. Things are starting to look up.

I always gravitated towards soft sweet sensitive guys. I didn't realize why until later. I was attracted to and still am attracted to the honesty of a guy who can allow his feminine traits to show. Crossdressing, to me, is a very good way for a guy to really enjoy that feminine side. That is why I am attracted to crossdressers. I enjoy talking with them, hearing their stories, their passion for enjoying women's things. I also am fascinated by TG people as well.

Hi I am Michelle I am looking for friends. I am open to dating other TG's and men. I am fun loving. I am very caring and loving hit me up let's talk.

I am A tall crossdresser that loves stockings and high heels

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I am a sexy fun loving Sissy Gurl that loves dressing enfemme and meeting new friends for going out ,shopping and clubbing in our nice outifts. I love wearing panties everyday ,bras and sheer silky stockings. I am outgoing ,friendly clean and love being a sissy gurl so much. I love meeting new friends and expressing my inner sissy feeling together with .them. I have profile on SilverDaddies,Fetlife and squirt.org.I return all messages. my profile name on fetlife is sissygirl and my Silver Daddies name is sissygirllove. Hope to meet some of you lovely wonderful people on here. Thanks for reading my message. Be real or Be Gone ! Looking for real time playdates in the Boston region and Naples Florida area xoxoxo

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Full Time Pre-Op Trans Lesbian Woman seeks SAME for chat and maybe more Former NYC Brooklyn gurl Not particularly attracted to the male species with very few exceptions. If you haven’t got a photo, you haven’t got a chance.!!! Will share pics Selectively Oh btw for the guys no Dick pics please unless requested.

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Mature, lifelong pansexual transfeminine. Want to know more?...Let's chat about it! Open to sisterly companionship, and domineering females. Always offering guidance to the younger, less experienced gals. LEGAL WARNING: Please be advised Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies,projects,profit or advertisement , or ANYONE for that matter, You do NOT have my permission, either expressed or implied, to use any of my profile or pictures, in any form or forum, both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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