I am a bit of a classy girl and like to look pretty. However, with that said, to me, being feminine is largely a state of mind and far more than just appearances. Not all women are beauty queens, and faulting ourselves for not reaching that high bar is just limiting and self detrimental to ourselves.

I have felt I am female as long as I can remember. I have fought it and relented, shamed myself, loved myself - rinse and repeat many times over. I imagine I am not alone in this cycle, and some people like me probably know exactly what that is like. Doing this was not sustainable and eventually led to not being able to love myself at all. Accepting myself for who I am has gone a long way in my own growth and learning to love who I am again.

When I first started presenting female in public, occasionally, I struggled to make it past the door if something was not perfect. I have learned not to ruin the pleasure of the process by over critiquing the results, and to simply enjoy being the person on the outside I am on the inside. I feel my small imperfections are what make me my most beautiful self.

I only wish to have the ability to exist in the world how I feel I am on the inside. I do not force my way of life or beliefs on others. I do not ask anyone to dress or act a certain way around me. I ask that others provide me the same grace.

If you see me online, I like to chat with friendly people with an open mind, particularly women and trans people both MTF and FTM. Even if I am in the adult side of chat, I am NOT into cyber, role play or fetish. This is not a fantasy persona, this is the real me and these are my real pictures. Please be respectful, I have real feelings.

Please understand that it took a lot to post pictures of my true self. If you don't have a picture, I might not respond or accept your friend request.

If you are local to Sarasota FL, after I get to know you, I might meet the right person in a safe place for coffee, a drink or a bite to eat and share some laughs.