A very respectful , friendly an fun Gentleman Well spoken, single, and an enjoyer of genuine nice people

I'm a commnet specialist from New Haven who sort of stumbled into the community about 26 years ago via the Prodigy "Fashion" board, and the rest, as they say, is history. Please feel free to check my journal for a list of some of the URNA folks I've met in person...we might have some friends in common! See you in chat! “Typical birthday party attendees do not expect the hired clown or magician to start electrocuting and incapacitating people.” - Iowa District Court Judge Nancy Whittenburg

Hi everyone :-) Urnotalone member since 2014, I've seen it all. I'm here for community and for friendship, so say hello. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, likeminded souls can change the world. Kristine xoxo

Brooklyn Gurl

Male, trans supporter and admirer.

Crossdresser in central NJ looking for likeminded friends. Like most of us I started at a young age with my mom's clothes and never outgrew it. It is only within the past 10 years or so that I started to take my dressing more seriously and work on my makeup skills and started to venture out dressed. I would love to find other girls to spend time together with, whether private moments alone or going out shopping or to clubs.

Fun Loving fulltime Older Transwomen. Call me Fran, Franny. Please have a profile and photo.

May 2017 Just a girl beginning to truly explore the world after a long hiatus. I started dressing when I was about 10. Several years ago circumstances changed to allow me more freedom to enjoy. While the attention is very flattering - what girl doesn't love a compliment - I'm not into men. Sorry guys, good luck.

twice divorced admirer and friend to the community, amateur photographer, nature enthusiast and easy going personality, in a committed relationship and living with my greatest friend and partner for life.

I am a mature guy who is looking to meet and get to know transgendereds, cds, and tvs. I just find I am drawn to a lovely t-woman and would love to have a very special friend.

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

I'd like to chat with tgs and passable cds. If we know each other a little bit better then I will expound further on this point. I am by the way divorced and have a kid. Love you all

Hello all: I am a midleaged bicd who lives in the KC,MO area and would love to meet others who also love the lifestyle, it can be very lonely living our lifestyle and making friends would be a priority, a special friend would be nice as well, please drop a note lets not be strangers

Hi I am a life Long Crossdresser. since the age of 12. I have been out at clubs I have had relations with other CD guy and Transwoman and Trans men. I am easy going with a good sense of humor.

I'm genderqueer and live in New York City. UPDATE: on Saturday, October 22, 2022 I am hosting a one-night only GORGEOUS: Triangles Cafe Reunion party in Danbury, CT at the original location of the former Triangles. Based on the RSVP list it's going to be an epic turnout! For more info check out my latest blog entry here for details and the official flyer. Event links can also be found on FB, FetLife, the non-adult URNA forum, and Events.com here = https://bit.ly/3cGwGxH I'm a "charter" member of the URNA community. [If you remember Friends Landing in Haverhill, MA then you have a clue as to how long!] URNA was an important influence in my life when I first came out and helped me discover and understand my queerness and trans-self. For 12+ years I hosted and organized 100+ monthly TG parties at Triangles Cafe in Danbury, CT. These legendary events were beloved by our community until Triangles closed its doors in 2015. It was considered "Studio 54 for the URNA community" and I'll always be proud of them. For a few years after that I hosted GORGEOUS at Trevi Lounge (Fairfield, CT). I'm less active on URNA but you can always find me on Twitter, Insta, FB, or FetLife below. https://www.twitter.com/tiffanyleigh https://www.instagram.com/mxtiffanyleigh/ https://fetlife.com/users/1015506 https://www.facebook.com/mxtiffanyleigh

Lifelong admirer, normal guy and all around good egg

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn. Owner/Admin of URNOTALONE.COM since Feb 27, 2015. T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic. About me, I am retired, long time transgender, who can remember wanting to be a ballerina when she was 6. Not full time (maybe 70/30 ish). Full time is still the goal. Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only. I love conversation, politics, fashion, and anything related to URNA. Pam

Preop woman, fulltime for over 10 years, looking to connect with friends. I am also into being used as a cum dump and a huge fan of dick pics! :) Generally, when I am here, you will find me in the Cyber Room fantasizing about being fucked. (That pink collar is gorgeous) Guys don't message me with no pic. Unless it is just a pic of your hard cock! Not going to respond to pictureless men. I'm the dark brunette on the left in my pic. The blonde woman is my best friend. Thank you and have a wonderful time! xoxoxo

I'm looking for fun and more fun

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I'm 6 ft. tall, 56 yo., Italian/American, athletic build - 215 lbs. , wavy brown hair with hazel green eyes. My personality is playful, adventurous, enthusiastic, open minded, fun and funny, passionate towards my partner, and being loving and supportive. Important qualities that we must share together are with high levels of respect, honesty, and sincerity ! I prefer being dominant in physical size to my partner ... so anyone being between 5 ft. 0" - 5ft. 11", 90-165 lbs. or close enough - any color hair/eyes. She also should enjoy at least discussing our fantasies and fetishes, where we can possibly explore them together. I have a few particular interests that are specific. Looking for someone who is open to all my fascinations, as I am to theirs.

Hi! I'm Andy. It's so nice to have so many friends here. Thank you, everybody! I have met some of the nicest people here. I never knew how many good people were around, til I found this place so many yrs ago. xxxxx

Adventurous, caring and versatile.