It’s been a while…

I’m Back… it’s been while

Once upon a time, back in the early 2000s I found this site, after lurking about for a long while. I joined made a profile and got brave enough to add photos. Over the course of a few years made friends, we would met and socialize. We grew out of our closets and wanted to get out and about, places like The Dame events, Femfever party’s, TGLisa parties, The Den, Paradise, Rainbow Mountain, Georgie’s, Raven and Triangles. I had met my friend Marisa on this site, she was my wing girl and I did the same for her. She passed away in 2021. Since then things have never been the same. The world changed some, I changed some too, and my life went upside down again third times a charm. I found myself caring for two of my grandchildren on a daily basis after all they are living with me. I miss my girl time, I miss Marisa and the days of the Jersey girls. As I mentioned I’ve changed and evolved a bit. I can’t remember if we were out

back in the day using the rest room matching how we were dressed went without a crossed eye. Things weren’t so woke, transgendered kind of was a cover word that included transsexuals, cross dressers,sissy and fetish relating to women clothing, thanks Caitlyn. It’s my opinion but I feel we went backwards after we were included with the Alphabets. It seemed that things started getting turbulent after that, gender and sexuality are different! I’m not woke, I am awake and a patriot first, after all I’ve studied history. I’m very up to date in this crazy world and these agendas being pushed they don’t end well for the majority. 

Now what I’ve said isn’t meant to offend anyone. I’m basically telling you I have a few years under my skirt. I’ve had gender dysphoria since I was young. Thought about transition seriously most of my life. Spent years in therapy learning and understanding who I am. 

I don’t fly my trans flag telling everyone, I don’t hide in the closet. I have friends and family that know and many people in my life don’t. I tell people when I think they have a need to know. 

I’ve been married and divorced twice any girlfriends that came into my life, I shared my story with them, hate having to lie and hide who I am. 

My interest: 

fashion, photography, guns, spirituality, energy work, tantric, holistic health, and action movies, romcoms.